There are many reasons why people are not married or even afraid to get married. One is afraid of commitment. Are you one of them? Are you then going to go away from someone when he talks about commitment? If so, maybe you are among those who fear commitment.
When some people think that commitment is all the love that will always be in their lifetime, it’s not for some other people who are being afraid of commitment. For them, commitment means the loss of freedom in the mix, no longer able to partying, shopping, job loss, the changing role and status, even physical changes.
Actually at first, there are men who often hold firm to remain unmarried and afraid of commitment. But not anymore. Some women, especially those already working, will think that commitment means loss of liberty tickets. Still, the growing opinion in the community, especially the east, consider if you do not live in pairs, then there is something wrong.
Perhaps the question that comes to mind is "what if everything was wrong?" Fear is probably because about one in three marriages end in divorce. But it usually happens to those who make a difference, interruption, as hitch. And if that happens, then you will go on a relationship that is more terrifying than ever.
That is often the reason why a person afraid of commitment. Childhood experiences of parents going through divorce, or betrayal, failure of the people closest to the marriage, and so on, can make a person feel scared to face the same thing with what he had seen.
But every relationship is different, depending on how the world views and ways of thinking of each. If someone grew up in a happy environment, then that is part of a commitment to a successful relationship.
You try to think of it, convince yourself that he had the right guy. Do not be afraid, because basically every relationship is different depending on each individual. And do not be afraid to commit because of the commitment does not mean you give up all your life.
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